By the time I publish this, a normal creature of my age must have kissed two or three Sunny Leones in his dreams. But then what am I doing at this hour... May be sleep has lost its way just like my mind. I meet a friend (Male obviously, considering the scarcity of girls in Vizag) and God knows how after five minutes of discussions the topic trends back to " Dude! It's high time to have a 'girlfriend'." And then starts the countless list of chicks upon whom our eyes have tharkofied or who once upon a time was Katrina Kaif of our life.
The term 'Relationship' has become more of a joke these days more due to the lambent lifestyle we live. People often fail to realize that its about us and not me. And then starts the countless smashing of ego's, phyche and what not without appreciating that the whole purpose of being in a relationship is lost. Its like having a girlfriend has become more of a fashion statement than anything else. Your dudeness quotient is calculated by the quantum of opposite sex you have sloshed upon with..
Ultimately what we want is peace of mind and not a piece of it! But then is it necessarily important to have one(girlfriend) at this age?
What I feel is that being single obviously has its own advantages. Live life as you wish, as you seek and as you enjoy. Actually being committed as well you can do all this but then this is where people falter. All those adjectives like possessive, dominating, rude, etc etc and all that blah blah start playing their part in the story.
And then all of us should accept that there's an inner thrust to hover upon that kinda lifestyle, that 'committed one' atleast once in lifetime. We always analyse things from the options we have. Just as an oasis is a blessing in disguise for a camel a good looking gurl besides you here is like hitting a bingo with a blind eye!! Its like fishing for a fish in the dead sea. Still from all this emerge some fortunate ones who ride their noses high having hooked up with the jellybeans in store...
Ask anyone in Kolkata and he has this thing always on back of his mind "Hoow to get a virgin Bengoli gurl!" The point of highlighting this is that even though we might hook-up with someone its very difficult to get her as we wished. The fast paced glimmering lifestyle is responsible for this kinda thoughts. Bottomline being
"Live life as it comes to you,
being smart pays you more than being an ass
and most importantly
let the problems have a share of your mind when they actually knock the door!"
